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From Survival to Stability: A Journey I Built Brick by Brick

I entered the IT world without certainty, but with determination. The early years were about learning, struggling, and proving—to others and to myself—that I belonged. Growth didn’t come overnight; it came through patience, consistency, and choosing discipline over comfort. Over time, that effort translated into stability and success. Today, I’m financially independent, owning a car, a two-wheeler, and a home that represents years of hard work. One milestone that stands out deeply for me is this:  a home loan that was originally structured for nearly 20 years was completely cleared within just one year . That moment wasn’t just financial freedom—it was emotional relief and proof that persistence compounds. My career growth has placed me ahead of many of my peers in terms of responsibility and compensation—not by shortcuts, but by sustained effort and accountability. Professionally, my work goes beyond routine tasks. I contribute to solving real-world problems through data and intel...

Truly Yours, Love

At the age of 18, a very dreamy period, someone asked me, “So, is she the one?” And in the blink of an eye I said, “Yes, she is my one True love”. It was the era of Princes and Princesses, Ponies and Unicorns, Fairies and Wishes and above all, a very promising, happy land, my very own ‘Far-Faraway’. There were butterflies in my stomach every time we crossed paths, goosebumps when she stared at me. Oh! I used to blush every time I thought about her. Protective, possessive and above all willing to give up everything, that’s how crazy it felt to be with her. True love? Is this how you feel when you find the one? Well, it’s been 8 years since then and a very beautiful journey. And if you are wondering whether I am still with my one True Love or it’s just another sad heartbreak narration, then no, it’s not a heartbreak, it’s not a sad story, it’s my beautiful journey with my one True Love. Love is patient and kind, love is not jealous, love is eternity. We all have heard such profound teach...

“It’s Time”

 Blinded by tears in its eyes, gasping for breath, it ran like the wind through the thick, dark forest. The thorns pierced its majestic, velvet body and the cold wind froze its soul. Everything seemed hazy as he kept fighting for a lost cause. The pain was too much, slowly consuming the beast – the King. Unable to conquer it’s emotion, the beast fell to the ground and roared into the darkness of the night. Choking in its tears, the lion fell asleep. The King of the jungle lay down on the ground under a tree for days. His mane lost its royal lustre and his beautiful skin scorched under the sun. He didn’t want to move. The little lions came and started messing with him. Biting his tail, biting his ears. He remained still. The other animals noticed it. And they started to move in – the jackals, the hyenas. They barked at him, laughed at him. They nipped his toes, and ate his food. They continued doing so, growing stronger and stronger each day, becoming bolder and bolder as the days p...

Are you better?

“I want to be happy, I really want to be happy! “, isn’t that a desperate cry from almost all the people around us? We are a generation of broken hearts and broken people – a very true statement but who is responsible for it? Us, right? We know the cause, we know the solution yet we ponder over our past and cling to that grief. Is that healthy? Of course not! Funnily, we all know this yet fail to apply it in our lives. Let’s not make other’s opinion our reality. I was speaking to a friend of mine the other day and in that conversation she said the following that keeps resonating in my mind, “If our past would have mattered and been our reality then we wouldn’t be waking up to a new tomorrow”. This is such a beautiful way to shed light to the blessings we receive in our ‘present’ . It does not matter how glorious you were in the past or how gruesome you were, are you that now? We often hear stories wherein people having a good sense of law and ethics commit crimes and on the other hand ...

Somethings are not meant to be forever

When we dedicate our precious moments, time, happiness, sadness, every damn thing of our life then that person becomes a special part of our inner being. On the other hand, if the same person lies to us for everything where it is not even necessarily makes us feel hurt, and that pain remains with us forever. After all this dedication, a person can expect at least a little appreciation or a gesture of showing value or respect. But few people can never see something beyond them. It is not possible to run the whole world around them. People are selfish they just care about their problems and if they get something easily, they never respect that because they are so much into self-please beyond that they cannot see anything. It's difficult to say anything bad about someone whom we have once loved so much. But in the long run, love only cannot help. To love someone and to live with someone for our life sometimes become two different things. Nobody wants to get separated but the condition...

Unforgettable thoughts- A need for change!

  Sometimes thoughts enter into my mind, that lasts into my brain more than a while.   Sometimes it goes to the left and the right, And when no place then stuck in the middle like a wild.   These sometimes thought makes me feel like a child. Where there is a drastic imbalance emotion, which is why I compared it with a child.   I might forget many things in my life, But this thought never forgets me even, at the night.   Sometimes it brings more negativity, but sometimes a positive vibes.   Fortunately, we all have that one-stop to the never-ending,  thoughtfulness remains in our minds.   Need to look and peep in our conscience. Because keys and doors operate all through our consent inside!!!!!!!

Dear Inner Strength

  I know this is a little bit tough situation. I know right now you are in the middle of a problem which is faced by everyone around the world. I know everywhere there is some or the other kind of negativity. The world around you looks like a horror dream. You have lost most of your close ones. Your heart is full of grief and denial. But before losing just look around you there are you, with your parents, your brother, your cousin who needed you the most. Think about people who are still alive and needed you as a support system to fight this war. You know the war is not only about your family but each person living on this earth needs that support system. Think about parents who lost their only child, think about children who are now orphans, think about a woman or a man who has lost all the close ones around them. Now look at yourself and see what you can do to fight back. How you can create every single moment to be more special not only in your life but everyone whom you relate ...