Fragile part of Relationship !

 I was reading the first chapter from the book “The compound Effect”. This book was related to positive habits we develop to become successful. The most important thing was that success never comes instantly it takes a lot of effort, smart choices, hard work and all these together make one radical difference. This was quiet interesting but then suddenly one line made me distracted from the topic the sentence was “ one person whom the author was talking about become negative and loses the one whom he adores the most and was her companion too. This all was because of his habits that changed everything because of his own dissatisfaction in the office work, he started distracting himself from the stress in his life by watching in the free time and sometimes he used to be in his own world and then his partner started feeling that he don’t have time for her or may be he don’t like her company and the she went far from him and this is how they get separated. When it comes to our real life what I observed that one mistake we all do in a relationship is that one person will become as a father or mother of the relationship and other one will keep on doing mistakes and without realizing the consequences which he or she will be going to face in future. In case of 1st person who behaved like a father or mother in a relationship will generate some negativity after some point of time because in this person’s perception he/she is making efforts and dedicating their whole time and energy to build the relation and the other person is not realizing the importance of that person.  In case of the second one he/ she might be not that much mature to realize the consequences, they could face in future because of their neglecting behaviour. So, they keep on doing the same thing again and again. Once the day comes when they are left with only one choice that is separation.  It might not fit in every relation because it’s my individual perception, So the conclusion for this could be that people should treat their companion as the person with whom they will learn something and also to teach something . It should never be only from one side. If one is not good in something, then other one should fulfil this gap. There are always something positive we learn from a healthy relation and which make us more confident and vice -versa in unhealthy relationship we may even loose what we have positive about ourselves and this will only lead to lose our inner strength.