Somethings are not meant to be forever

When we dedicate our precious moments, time, happiness, sadness, every damn thing of our life then that person becomes a special part of our inner being. On the other hand, if the same person lies to us for everything where it is not even necessarily makes us feel hurt, and that pain remains with us forever. After all this dedication, a person can expect at least a little appreciation or a gesture of showing value or respect. But few people can never see something beyond them. It is not possible to run the whole world around them. People are selfish they just care about their problems and if they get something easily, they never respect that because they are so much into self-please beyond that they cannot see anything. It's difficult to say anything bad about someone whom we have once loved so much. But in the long run, love only cannot help. To love someone and to live with someone for our life sometimes become two different things. Nobody wants to get separated but the conditions, attitude, and thinking of the person make us take such harsh decisions. We once wished our story to have a happy ending but now I wish to be this end to be happy. I wish if something happened between us a little differently, we could have made those memories more beautiful and peaceful. One lie can destroy many things, think about how many times those many lies could have destroyed me deeply to my inner soul and peace. I used to think that we are forever but now I realize that it was only me who thought about this thought of being forever. Trust is the most fragile part of any relationship, and we can’t trust someone then every effort goes in vain, and effort cannot always be made from one side again and again.

We need to come beyond love and take the decisions for our happiness even if others think we are the villain of the story because a person who is not happy cannot make anyone else also happy. Sometimes life seems unfair but everything happens to make us stronger so that we learn the lesson for the next time by not repeating the same mistakes from our past.

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