Stop Being Stopped !

 We have often heard, “Life is too short to keep grudges for anyone”. It takes seconds to change our lives and then we realize that it was a waste on which we were focusing before because life is too short for all these irrelevant and useless resentments and even responding to it is not of any worth. I know it's difficult to do that but when we experience that the person who was there with us, as an important part of our life, just a few seconds before, does not exist anymore and we can never see that person again or talk to that person again. That is the moment that makes us vulnerable and helpless. Every moment of our life becomes difficult because we know we can’t bring that person back and change this harsh reality. But we need to realize that the ones who are gone have played their part and now it is us who must take a strong decision and move on by playing our part in life.

 

How do cope- up with the loss?

 

We should not keep the grief or denial inside our heads instead, we should take that out by remembering the person and the lovely moments spent with that

person. Acceptance is the key to moving on.

If we want to have alone time, then we should give ourselves time to mourn and express our feelings in some or another way.

We should relive that person’s memory by remembering them in celebrations, by remembering their favorite food, or anything which could have made them happy.

We should keep trying some new things which make us happy and enjoy every moment as life is too short to fear doing something.

 

What to do to make our life more beautiful?


We should observe the real things going around us and come out of the fake world in which everyone is living.

Try to find out what we really want in life and figure out what are the things which give us true happiness.

Try something new and see if that really gives us inner peace, if not then continue exploring more things.

Always have a positive approach towards a person or any situation and try to learn from it when things are not in our favor.

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