A Journey to be an ideal child !

 We, humans, tend to think these kinds of heading more prone to be on negative sides but this is just a perception of a person where he thinks to become an ideal kid to please his parents. It is irrespective of gender as everyone goes through this situation especially if you are surrounded by so many orthodox beliefs. So here I begin..

 What is an Ideal Child? 

 

A child's thought when he was a kid to have fun and to do all those kinds of stuff that makes him feel amazing and as if every moment he is living just defines him to be on cloud nine. Everything goes in a smooth and chilled manner. When suddenly he and his family realize that its time to be more serious and say bye to funny and notorious things. Now you are grown up you need to follow the rules and if you implement all these rules in your life then you will become an ideal child as everyone in this world want. But here is a twist the reality of this is a stark contrast with the above statements made by parents. This world is unpredictable, you never know how these people will judge you and your values. Even your parents don't want a person with those values in reality. Everyone in the real world scenario wants a person to be fit in society. Whatever was told in our childhood was just an illusion. If you follow that then no one is going to value you but if you don't follow, then this probably makes this a proud moment someday by your actions. 

 

 A Question mark to an Ideal Personality 

Parents should teach their children to be adaptive and at the same time value each human being. They will learn with time that when to react and when not to react. Every time to behave as a selfish person will not work. It's very important to have emotional intelligence. To follow the path with a blindfold is not the right thing. They should have their thoughts and learning through a situation and let that feeling come out of their own without pressurizing them to do that thing because that thing is good and at the same time restrict them to do another thing because it is bad according to the society. I know to speak or write about it is very easy but to follow that in real life is a tough job for both the parents as well as the child. 

Hence, I conclude this by saying that there are a lot more changes to be taken place to upgrade our society in many terms such as mentally, any kind of complex, equity, empowerment, cast system, racism, and the list will go on and on. But now at least a few people in this complex society understand and able to differentiate themselves in this web of complexity and knows the root cause of the problems. They know to stand against all the wrong things. Even before there are people who have always come up whenever something against humanity has taken place. To maintain this it's important to inculcate this in their childhood rather than other useless things to be talked about.