Siddharth's Digital

  We have often heard, “Life is too short to keep grudges for anyone”. It takes seconds to change our lives and then we realize that it was a waste on which we were focusing before because life is too short for all these irrelevant and useless resentments and even responding to it is not of any worth. I know it's difficult to do that but when we experience that the person who was there with us, as an important part of our life, just a few seconds before, does not exist anymore and we can never see that person again or talk to that person again. That is the moment that makes us vulnerable and helpless. Every moment of our life becomes difficult because we know we can’t bring that person back and change this harsh reality. But we need to realize that the ones who are gone have played their part and now it is us who must take a strong decision and move on by playing our part in life.   How do cope- up with the loss?   We  should not keep the grief or denial inside our h...

 We, humans, tend to think these kinds of heading more prone to be on negative sides but this is just a perception of a person where he thinks to become an ideal kid to please his parents. It is irrespective of gender as everyone goes through this situation especially if you are surrounded by so many orthodox beliefs. So here I begin..  What is an Ideal Child?    A child's thought when he was a kid to have fun and to do all those kinds of stuff that makes him feel amazing and as if every moment he is living just defines him to be on cloud nine. Everything goes in a smooth and chilled manner. When suddenly he and his family realize that its time to be more serious and say bye to funny and notorious things. Now you are grown up you need to follow the rules and if you implement all these rules in your life then you will become an ideal child as everyone in this world want. But here is a twist the reality of this is a stark contrast with the above statements made by pare...

 I was reading the first chapter from the book “The compound Effect”. This book was related to positive habits we develop to become successful. The most important thing was that success never comes instantly it takes a lot of effort, smart choices, hard work and all these together make one radical difference. This was quiet interesting but then suddenly one line made me distracted from the topic the sentence was “ one person whom the author was talking about become negative and loses the one whom he adores the most and was her companion too. This all was because of his habits that changed everything because of his own dissatisfaction in the office work, he started distracting himself from the stress in his life by watching in the free time and sometimes he used to be in his own world and then his partner started feeling that he don’t have time for her or may be he don’t like her company and the she went far from him and this is how they get separated. When it comes to our real life...

There will always be a moment in your life when you will feel unwanted, useless because of people in your past or present, or who have just moved away in their life. That time you will try to make that person remain in your life. Why? Because there is a fear inside you that if they move on then your importance for them will not remain the same. Now you are no longer valuable to them. Another fear is the fear of rejection because now that person has rejected you and has stopped showing any care or interest towards you. This will make you feel down and low confidence. In anger or an impulse, you will try to do everything you can do to resume the person as well as your lost value. But in reality, if you do this then you are degrading your value and even your self-respect. Remember some things are not in your control. You need to let it go and make them as well as yourself free. Try to think about the necessary things you need to do now that would enhance your growth, self-respect, and mos...

 Whom should I tell that today I am not feeling good? Can you talk to me for a moment? Can you just be with me today? But when I look around I found people but my right on anyone whom I can text and tell everything that I am feeling today without thinking even twice and not caring of what that person may think about me, not having fear of letting that person know about my weakness. But none is so close and before whom I can pour my heart out. Today I broke again because few things in the past make you vulnerable and make you feel that you cannot get yourself out of the storm alone. You want the same kind of person as you are who truly understands you and just the way you want, takes you out of that storm, and in return gives you a lot of happiness. This is a good imagination, like a utopian world, full of positivity but when we see outside our illusion there is one harsh reality that everyone in life is not so fortunate enough to have that person in their life and few people have t...

 I am aware of the fact that nobody stays with you permanently but to accept this fact becomes even more difficult for us when we get attached to those people and at the same time the response from the other side is almost equal to null. This becomes a reason for our pain, and we are pretty much aware that if we pour out our heart in front of these then also it's just our loss because for them our value has gone down. There could be many reasons such as they are bored speaking with us, they have met the right people they wanted to be, they might have judged us in some situations or through our response in the particular situation or there might be the chance that they were clear from the starting and now they did not feel like investing their time with us because the period they must have in their mind is over now so basically their time pass session has expired. These people keep on changing according to their vantage and they don’t care or understand others' feelings. The bea...